Russian Weddings: The Reception(s)

Why take only one day to celebrate a life-long commitment, when you can celebrate for days instead! Are you wondering how? Here are just a few examples of Russian traditions and customs you, too, can incorporate into your special day whether it lasts one day or several.

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Upon the end of their wedding ceremony, Russian couples often release white doves into the air as a symbol of the purity of their love. From thereon, the festivities are nonstop.

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It is customary in Russia for the bride and groom to take a tour of the city. They will often have their wedding portraits snapped in front three to five landmarks that hold great meaning.

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A Tamada, or toastmaster, often plays a pivotal role in the reception. A friend or relative may be given this role, however, many couples are now hiring professional entertainers. Not only do they give the toasts, but they also introduce guests and ensure that the festivities are flowing well.

The first toast is made to the bride and groom, traditionally with vodka shots, which have already been placed at each place setting. Following the first shot, the guests will chant and shout, “Gorko! Gorko! Gorko!” to indicate the vodka is bitter. The newlyweds are then obliged to kiss to sweeten the taste.

The second toast is made to the parents in thanksgiving by the couple. The Tamada then invites the friends and family to give toasts of their own, customarily presenting their gift to the couple at that time. Each toast is spaced out to give guest time to feast and talk. Every toast is followed with a shot of vodka and shouts of “Gorko!”

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Russian weddings include several games between the guests and the couple. One example is the “kidnapping” of the bride. In the midst of all the dancing, guests will still the bride away and hold her hostage until the groom pays the ransom. This may be in the form of money, though a Franklin was not enough for the groom pictured above, who break-danced for the return of his bride. However, the dancing certainly does not signify the end of the feast. In fact, it simply makes room for the main course! The reception ends late into the night after much more feasting, toasting, and dancing.

After all the toasting and partying, guests usually need some time to recover. For this reason, day two’s festivities customarily begin in the evening. While everyone from the first reception are invited, only close friends and family usually attend. Here, there is more eating, drinking, playing games, and being merry!

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